The Top 3 Lessons Learned as an RV Family: Soulful RV Family

Published on May 14th, 2021

Ah yes, the family road trip!  What an amazing way to travel and spend time with the people you love..  If you grew up anything like me, then you were accustomed to taking the family car for vacations.  Depending on your family dynamics, this was either a time of great exhilaration and excitement or utter trauma.  So as my husband and I began to grow our family, we did not know what to expect when it came time to pack up the kids and hit the road on a long trip.  

Dashboard overlooking an empty highway

Now we were lucky, in that our kids have always been easy to travel with during long car trips.  But that is not to say that there weren’t any issues along the way.  Traveling with three kids in car seats, activity bags to keep them entertained, bathroom stops, snacks, and the occasional stretch break were all things that we had to consider before hitting the road.  

Two young boys exiting a car

All of that changed when we purchased our RV, and trust me, I will never look back.  Having a motorhome has been a blessing to us and our kids in more ways than we could have imagined.  That said, having an RV has changed our whole approach to traveling and we have learned some valuable life lessons from RVing.

#1 Slow Down. Life is a Marathon, Not a Sprint.

Let’s face it, typically when you are traveling in the traditional sense, you focus on your destination and how much time you have for your trip.  That usually translates into getting to that destination as quickly as possible in order to maximize your time in that one spot.  

When we planned our first trip in the RV, we implemented this very same idea.  The intent was to take the kids to visit extended family.  We planned it like we would have planned any other road trip.  We loaded the RV with all of our necessary supplies and endeavored to drive from Georgia to New Jersey round trip in one week.  Yes, this was a bit ambitious for first time RVers but we had a plan and we were committed to stick to it. 

Man drives a Class A RV

There was no problem with that plan on the face of it, but it left us no wiggle room to make stops along the way and explore other states, historical landmarks or interests.  In the end, we felt rushed and so exhausted from the trip that we needed a vacation to recover from the vacation. Since then we have learned to research our routes and make a couple of short stops at campgrounds along the way. This way we were able to enjoy the journey rather than just focus on the destination. It forced us to slow down our pace which made the trip more relaxing and enjoyable. 

#2  Be Prepared. 

My uncle has this saying that he always preached to my cousins and the family. He made sure that we all knew that Proper Planning Prevents Probable Problems. Whether or not you currently believe in the concept of Murphy’s Law, one thing is for certain, owning an RV will make you a believer. Oh but don’t let that scare you! Making the decision to begin RVing has been one of the best things that we could have done for our family life.  However, as with life itself, things go much smoother when you are prepared for them and RVing is no different. You wouldn’t (at least you shouldn’t) set out on a road trip without having your cars’ tire pressure checked, oil changed, and overall roadworthiness inspected. Well, the same should go for your RV.  

Dashboard lights illuminating "Check Engine"

RV maintenance is not the only thing you need to focus on in your trip preparations.  What about the daily essentials that you will need?  Making sure that you have a travel checklist will ensure that you don’t forget any of your essentials for your trip. 

RV Engine

First aid kits, over-the-counter medications, and ice packs are some of the items that you don’t necessarily think about until you need them.  The worst feeling is having a sick child in the middle of the night and not having the items to provide them comfort.  

#3  Adventure Awaits!

Since we have begun RVing, we have seen and experienced things that we never would have by staying in our hometown.  Our travels have taught us that we need to occasionally try something new and get out of our comfort zone, expanding our horizons.  Our kids are watching us, and we are not just teaching them through words but also through our actions.  Kids will repeat what they see us do, so let’s teach them the importance of trying new things and challenging yourself. 

Three young boys stand on a hiking trail and look up towards a cliff.

The lessons learned from pushing ourselves beyond our realm of comfort have really taught our kids how to support each other through the hard times.  They have also learned to move together as a team and celebrate each other’s victories.

Father and three sons sit in front of a sign for Tallulah Gorge State Park

Overall the lessons learned from RVing have helped us to come together as a family.  Rving has certainly played an important role in the lessons that we have tried to impart to our children.    

Mother and three sons stand on a bridge overlooking a gorge

Even as adults we are constantly learning more about ourselves.  Rving has just made our life much richer and fuller.  We look forward to whatever new lessons await us on our next adventure.

About the author: Tia Sims is the CFO (Chief Family Officer) of Soulful RV Family. We are an African American family loving the RV lifestyle and traveling as we homeschool our 3 preteen boys exploring all this great country has to offer. Keep up with the Soulful RV Family on Instagram!

What do you think?

How much can you make renting your RV?

See How Much You Can Make

How much can you make renting your RV?

See How Much You Can Make

Similar Articles

Exclusive Deals & Discounts for RVshare Owners & Renters

You don’t need to wait until the holiday season to treat yourself or a loved one to a really thoughtful…

Read More

RVshare Partners with Boondockers Welcome to Bring You an Exclusive Discount!

It’s no secret that we are big fans of Harvest Hosts at RVshare. We already believe that the magic of…

Read More

5 Reasons Why Driving An RV Is The Best Way To Travel In The USA with AsoboLife

After over 30 months on the road traveling in our camper, we’ve been fortunate to experience much of the incredible…

Read More

Top 5 Unexpectedly Perfect Travel Destinations of 2021 with Vanna Mae

When I started my cross-country road trip from California to Pennsylvania and back, I made the choice to explore parts…

Read More

Questions Owners Should Ask Renters Before Booking Their RV so You Know it’s the Right Fit!

Before you say yes to a renter, it’s a good idea to find out if it’s going to be a…

Read More

RVing With Kids to Yellowstone – All You Need to Know with Project Trek

Yellowstone National Park is a United States National Park that spans the borders of Wyoming, Idaho, and Montana.  It was…

Read More